Imagine that you inherited your grandparents' house. The only condition is that you have to actually live in the house. Your grandparents, whom you love, have lived in the same house for going on sixty years. This simple abode holds an infinite amount of family memories.
And yet, if you are going to live there, you'll have to make it your own. The vinyl arm chair that is permanently imprinted with the shape of your Grandpa's posterior is not something to keep for posterity's sake. Although the massive old faux-wood-boxed TV faithfully cranked out Wheel of Fortune at 6:30 for decades on end, it too will have to go.
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But the furniture is just the beginning; the whole interior desperately needs to be updated. 12 inch pink flowers on the bathroom wallpaper may have been "snazzy" in the 70's, but now it just makes you feel like Pepto Bismol had a fight with the Easter Bunny. New paint and new carpet are a must in every room.
However, we haven't even started talking about the real improvements. The whole house could use some basic environmental updating. The windows leak air like a sieve. (Maybe that's why Grandma always had that nappy afghan and two cats on her lap?) The wood furnace is literally a fire trap. And there's a spongy spot on the floor near the back porch where water has been seeping in every time they got a good rain.
The kitchen and dining room were designed for a time when meals were formal affairs with fine china. Your family prefers an open kitchen/dining/living room, so a couple of walls will have to go.
Furthermore, Grandpa sure saved a lot of money by doing the work himself when he added the extra bedroom in '69, and again when he built himself "Grandpa's workshop" in '83. But the additions are showing their age, especially around the seems where the sheetrock is starting to turn brown because of some leaks.
Don't get me wrong. You're grateful for the house and all of the family heritage that goes with it. It's just that Grandma and Grandpa didn't see that their house was deteriorating on pace with their bodies. They didn't seem to notice that wonky faucet in the bathroom because they had lived with it for 30 years. But if you are going to live there, you'll have to bring the house into the 21st century. The challenge for you is to reshape the family history so that it can be a working home for your family.
This is essentially the challenge facing younger Nazarenes. We have inherited a doctrine of sanctification that our grandparents built.





